Mastering Your Life and Tinnitus
Over the last several months I’ve written
dozens of articles on Tinnitus. In those articles I’ve addressed
everything from getting relief from tinnitus, to sleeping with tinnitus,
sex and tinnitus, marriage and tinnitus and even quantum physics
and tinnitus. Today is the day you get on with it and start mastering
your life and your tinnitus.
I’ve said it hundreds of times before and will continue to
say it. Some people wake up day after day hoping something will
change, but never take any action to affect change. If you want
more joy in your life, you must create joy. It will not happen to
you by accident. You must take steps to create change that will
allow joy to come into your life.
If you are seeking less anger in your life, less stress, or less
pain, you must do something today that will allow more peace, more
pleasure and more relief into your life. It’s not enough to
think about it, to wish it, to hope for it. You see, hoping keeps
you in the state of hoping. Wishing keeps you in the state of wishing.
Thinking keeps you in the state of thinking.
There are two things you must do to attract those things you desire
into your life. The first is to stay open to the opportunity you
seek. Stay open to healing and open to joy. If you keep openness
in your heart you will be in a state of allowing. which means allowing
things to come into your life.
Most people stay closed off to such things by feeling constant
anger, pain, stress, or by constantly complaining. Feeling is the
key. If you constantly feel anger, you are closed off to feeling
pleasure. Your feelings, your emotions expand and create more of
that reality for you.
On the other hand, if you do something that makes you feel pleasure
and focus on that pleasure, you are allowing pleasure to enter your
reality, and that will expand. What you focus on expands. Again,
your feelings are the key to creating your reality.
I used to consider myself a tinnitus patient. Hence, what expanded
for me was being a tinnitus patient. I used to consider myself a
tinnitus sufferer, therefore, I not only allowed more suffering
to come into my life, I encouraged that simply by letting my thoughts
be the pilot of my life.
If your thoughts lead to your emotions, and your emotions lead
to your actions, and your actions lead to your reality, then the
key to mastering your life is this; take your thoughts away from
the guy now at the helm. He’s on auto pilot. You take the
controls back, and you become the pilot and navigate your life.
You will not become the master of your life over night. It takes
practice to become aware of your thoughts and emotions, and then
choose to focus on them or not. But, I believe this with all my
heart. What you focus on expands, and your emotions are the key
to the ignition. Your thoughts are now on auto-pilot, yet you can
take the controls back and pilot your vessel on your own. Once you
do this, you are now navigating your life from your soul rather
than from random thought (whatever comes into your mind). Once you
practice noticing what you are thinking, you will see how repetitive
your thoughts are, how useless they are and how much they sabotage
It’s not positive thinking that will change your life. It’s
more than that. It’s mastering your emotional controls, plus
navigating your thoughts with positive intention. Will you continue
to make mistakes? Sure! But, mistakes are beacons of opportunity
which are intentionally put there in order for you to change your
navigation and get on the right course!
So, in essence, it’s positive thinking plus positive feeling
plus positive action. There is no such thing as random suffering.
You can’t heal your tinnitus with the same mind that created
it. You must now become a conscious participant in your life. Change
your thoughts and change your emotions and your tinnitus will change.
Paul Tobey is a professional motivational speaker who has performed many seminars for ringing ears sufferers and is author of Tinnitus Free Living a Tinnitus Handbook Self Help Guide which helps people reduce their tinnitus volume.