There Are Only 3 Ways to
Attract What You Want
For tinnitus sufferers, attracting what you want
may be difficult because of course the mind wants to focus on what
it doesn’t want, the tinnitus. However, if you are to truly
get what you really want in life and at the same time, get tinnitus
off your mind, there is only three ways to do it successfully.
The answer however, is not in the doing, it’s “how”
you do it. And, that will require three different behavioral and
emotional attitudes. The first is “acceptance”. Being
able to accept things as they are and not fight your mind’s
need to control every situation is paramount to any successful life.
The problem is; the mind has been conditioned to judge, criticize
and complain when things don’t go your way. You must stop
the mind from doing that. Many people try to be right by fighting
or resisting what they think is wrong. My question to you is; would
you rather be right or would you rather have what you want? Any
negative attachment that the mind has to any given outcome creates
resistance. And, the more you resist, the more it will persist.
Being able to accept what is means that you have adopted acceptance.
You have created what is called detachment. Once you have that,
then you are able to take whatever comes without any negativity
Once you have adopted acceptance and detachment, it’s time
to move on to a more effective way of getting what you want and
that is to “enjoy” what it is that you do. Enjoyment
is a much more powerful energy than acceptance.
The thing that you need to know about enjoyment is that you do
not have to work at it. Choosing things that you love to do will
automatically create enjoyment. It’s an intrinsic motivation
or a motivation that comes from within. Whatever you love to do
will have an inherent level of enjoyment and therefore that energy
will draw situations, circumstances and people to you that are positive
and will give you more of what you want.
The third way of doing anything successfully and the strongest
energy that you can create is enthusiasm. Enthusiasm is when you
combine the energy of enjoyment with a goal or purpose. Unfortunately
for most people they have no idea what their purpose or goal in
life is. And, if you are ever to adopt enthusiasm on a constant
basis you will have to figure it out.
The best way that I know how to find your purpose is to ask yourself
what it is you love to do and then attach a level of “how
will this help others” to it. When you help others you automatically
open the flood gates of everything that is good in life.
The rule is this; when you help others get what they want, you
will have it in abundance. The very fact that you are trying to
help instead of asking “what’s in it for you”
implies purpose. Your life will become easy and whatever you fought
against in the past will disappear. This goes for tinnitus as well.
I think the problem for most tinnitus sufferers is they can’t
see past their own suffering. But, when you think about it, doesn’t
suffering imply a level of what’s in it for me? You’re
hoping for healing when what you really should be doing is helping
others heal first. Now, as hard as that may seem for you at the
moment it really is the fastest way to get what you want.
Unfortunately, many people never outgrow their limiting beliefs.
And, for most people the limited belief of focusing on your problems
so that you can fix them is totally against all known laws of the
universe. You must flow with the universe and to do that you will
need a purpose. Find it. You’ve been given a great life and
you must repay in kind for the life you’ve been given by helping
others to have great lives.
Learning to accept the things you may not like to do, enjoying
what you love to do and the enthusiasm that comes from pursuing
your life’s purpose will give you everything you’ve
ever wanted. Don’t forget though, when you don’t get
what you want, don’t dwell on it. Instead, shift your attention
to acceptance and go do something you love that helps others.
Paul Tobey is a professional speaker who has recorded an amazing
2-part seminar entitled "Tinnitus
Free Living." Paul was invited to give this tinnitus
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