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August 15th, 2006 | 
Author: If you are here, it’s because you are hoping to find cures for tinnitus, or a treatment for ringing in the ears. I keep a pretty close eye on what’s new when it comes to “treatment for ringing in the ears” and I try to stay on top of the “tinnitus news” when it comes to “2006 tinnitus research”.
Whether you are searching for “sound therapy tinnitis”, or you wonder “does vitamin e help tinnitus”, or you are looking for “drugs that help tinnitus”, or you are looking to find any way to help you sleep due to lack of sleep because of Tinnitus, you have come to the right place.
If you wonder if “white noise therapy” or “white noise for sleeping” will help, you have to take it from an ex-chronic Tinnitus sufferer…I’ve looked long and hard for “tinnitus relief” and a “cure for ringing in the ears”. I too was in desperate search of that “miracle Tinnitus drug” and tried everything. Well almost everything!
There are many “causes for ringing ears” or “buzzing in ear”, and much “tinnitus research” is being done to help “Cure Tinnitus”. Yet a “treatment for tinnitus” or “help for tinnitus” sufferers can be an exhausting and depressing journey. I want to help you in your search, and make things a lot easier for you!
I too spent thousands of dollars on finding “tinnitus relief” and “tinnitus remedy” including thousands of dollars on “tinnitus retraining therapy” better known as “TRT” or “tinnitus maskers”. I suffered from chronic tinnitus and “hyperacusis” and depression. I tried “white noise therapy”. I joined a “tinnitus support group” to find “help with tinnitus” where I learned about all these so called “cures for tinnitus”.
Yet I was desperate and tried highly recommended “tinnitus home remedies”, a variety of herbal magic “medication for tinnitus” and a large menue of “treatments for tinitus”. I was so convinced that the “tinnitus cure” was outside of me, that I gave my money over to anyone who promised “drugs that help tinnitus” were going to help me and the miracle cure was only a phone call away. I even went as far as Japan to meet healers and get treatment! If I could, I’d find that magic man on the hill in India and pay my house, two cars and even my piano to get that cure!
I would have tried anything! I just read lately that some tinnitus sufferers are drinking urine as a potential cure! If I didn’t know what I know now, I certainly would have tried drinking urine as a therapy if there was a single chance it would work! I know people who tried “cognitive behavioral therapy for tinnitus”. I’ve read about “tinnitus research treatment Europe”. I’ve read about “sound therapy tinnitus” and all about “tinitus research”. I probably tried a good 50% of all the promised therapy and so called “herbal medicine for tinnitus” out there! And receipts to prove it!
Don’t get fooled by the bogus claims. Start where there is great information at the “American Tinnitus Association” website. There are wonderful people out there doing great work for “tinnitus research”. Your “tinnitus recovery” is a journey you must navigate with wisdom, and most of it will be on your own. Before you make choises about anti-depressants, herbal meds, maskers, urine therapy, or any kind of therapy, please do your due diligence and consult your doctors, consult the “American Tinnitus Association”, consult your local “tinnitus research” group, consult tinnitus resources, patients, and news. Ask plenty of questions! But start by asking YOURSELF the important questions.
For this very reason, I put together a one hour downloadable seminar you can listen to, so you get an idea of my tinnitus journey, what has helped me, and how I live a Full and Abundant Tinnitus Free life. I too was a chronic tinnitus sufferer, but I turned it around. So before you go looking for all the answers that exist outside of you, start looking for the obvious answers that are “inside” of you!
Wishing you a Tinnitus Free Life,
Paul Tobey
P.S. You have “buzzing in ears”, “ringing in ears”, “hyperacusis”, and you are seeking “tinnitus treatments”, please stay on top of “tinnitus news” like Tinnitus Today. Remember as of August 15 2006, there is no “cure for ringing ears” or “cure for Tinnitus”. Stop here for a second and think about what your Tinnitus is teaching you about yourself, and the type of things you must learn to improve your life situation. If you are not convinced that Tinnitus can improve you, your life situation, and everyone in your life, listen to the download.
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Paul Tobey is a concert pianist, composer and touring artist who has suffered from chronic tinnitus for over 7 years who found a path to recovery without medical intervention. He is also author of “A Practical Guide to Tinnitus Free Living”. For more information visit ==> Ringing In The Ears – Help For Ringing Ears
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Drugs That Help Tinnitus
Ok, I’ve been asked this a million times…. “Are There Drugs That Help Tinnitus?” Based on my experience there are no drugs that help tinnitus. That doesn’t mean there aren’t any because everyone is different and what may work for one person may not work for another.But, consider this. Drugs caused my tinnitus! I had a virus and I took an over-the-counter medication to alleviate the symptoms. And voila! Next morning I woke up with a jet engine in my head and it’s been there for the last 6 years.
My advice! Avoid over-the-counter medication at all costs. In fact, the warning leaflet inside the box said (in very small print) “may cause ringing in the ears.” Duh! If I’d known I would have never taken it. But, if you read my other posts, I’m not at all bitter about this. Why? Because tinnitus was a blessing in disguise. As a result, I’m a better person, I eat better, I’m much more healthy and spiritually grounded.
Re: Tinnitus Today
Mary from Portland sent a handwritten letter:
There are so many of us waiting for a miracle cure, rather than “learning to live with it.” But so far, that’s what we must do to survive. – Living with Tinnitus for 50 years +
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Thank you Mary for such a wonderful letter.The first audiologist I saw confirmed I had no apparant ear damage, and that I had developed tinnitus and hyperacusis. And then the words came…”learn to live with it”. This particular audiologist needed sensitivity training. Truth is, if I could eliminate 5 disempowering words from the audiologist’s office, they would be “Learn to Live With It”. It’s not wise advice. Because it’s not realistic advice. We know that human beings operate on the mental, physical, spiritual and emotional levels. It’s all interconnected. Taking your power back from Tinnitus is a larger step then learning to live with it. That’s the authentic truth. Taking power back from your Tinnitus takes a complete shift from all levels of your being – which includes your mental, physical, spiritual and emotional self. You must become aware of each level of your being to come to a place of no resistance.Tinnitus is like stress: it goes up with the amount of energy you are putting into resisting your situation.When I resist my situation, I can feel a whole shift in my energy. One of those indicators is that my tinnitus volume goes up. When I choose a different energy, my Tinnitus volume goes back down. But to choose – is the tricky part. It’s not easy to choose ,becasue my little voice will fight me. Saying things like “I can’t”, “it’s too hard”, “your Tinnitus is too loud”, “it’s controlling you”. I have to fight that little voice and replace that with “I can”, “it’s effortless”, “I can control my energy level”, “I only hear silence”…and really hush that little voice into silence so I can begin to feel no resistance to what I am experiencing at that moment.I think its important for Tinnitus sufferers to be aware that Tinnitus is a mystery to science – and great minds are working on solving that mystery as you are reading this. In the meantime, try not to resist, it makes it worse. Paul
Re: Tinnitus Today
Beverly writes:
I’ve been a member of ATA (American Tinnitus Association) since 1990 and I have to say your article is one of the most honest ones I have read. My
tinnitus is a result of an of accident when I was in the Peace Corps in 1989. There are millions of us who feel your pain and celebrate in your victory.
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Thank You Beverly! Victory indeed. I do feel a sense of accomplishment on most days. It’s not a complete cure because of course the noise is still there, but everyday I wake to the sweet sound of being alive.
Re: Tinnitus Today
Donna from Pennsylvania writes…
I just read about you in the Tinnitus Today, June issue. As a support group with no finances and no dues, we cannot possibly afford you as a speaker, but would appreciate any brochures, pamphlets or tapes you could share with the group.. . . . .
Thanks Donna. I didn’t expect so many people to reach out to me as a result of this story. While I try my best to answer everyone with personal care, Nancy suggested that I start a blog and try to answer some questions that may be helpful to people going through similar journey’s. I hope this blog helps. Please don’t hesitate to email my your questions. I will also try to put together a free audio on this site shortly.
God Bless,
Paul
Re: Tinnitus Today
Beverly writes….
Dear Paul,
Thank you for an outstanding article in Tinnitus Today. I published an
article in June 1994, A Message of Hope. St. Teresa of Avila, the Spanish Carmelite mystic had tinnitus so she became a mentor of mine. She referred to it as the ‘shepherd’s whistle’ calling souls back to God. You answered the call. We thank God for you wife!
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I don’t know of St. Teresa of Avila. But it’s not the first time I’ve heard a
theory that Tinnitus is a form of communication with a higher power. The
more I understand that humans are an energy form, the more I wonder if the sound I hear is the frequency of my body’s energy system. I realize I’m not suppose to hear my heart beat, my blood pump, or other functions in my brain. But what if, for whatever reason, I have the displeasure of hearing my body’s energy frequency? What if there is an energy source? I toy with theories all the time. I’m open to all forms of learning, all theories, and all possibilities.
Paul
Ringing in Ears – A Healing Journey of Choice
The following Tinnitus Story (ringing in ears) appeared in the the June 2006 Edition of Tinnitus Today published by the American Tinnitus Association.
“My Choice” by Paul Tobey – Copyright Paul Tobey May 2006
I have devoted my life to the study of sound. I am not a physicist, a doctor, a scientist, nor an audiologist. I am a master of sound, an accomplished concert pianist. Since the age of eight, I’ve studied the relationship between the body and the vibration of musical notes. What I couldn’t have known is that one day I would deeply yearn for the one note I would never hear again – the note of “no sound.”
Perhaps the tinnitus was caused by all of those over-the-counter decongestants I was taking for my flu, or maybe it was the stress of being at the pinnacle of my performing career, or maybe it was the news that my wife, Nancy, was giving up a good paying job, or a combination thereof. Whatever it was, one night I dreamt I was sitting on an airport tarmac between two jet engines. When I woke up, I realized this noise wasn’t just a dream. It was in my head! I rolled off the bed onto the floor in a fetal position with hands over my ears.
Over the next few weeks, I begged doctors to help me. My journey of hope began with visits to family doctors, referrals, and audiologists. Weeks turned into years with more research leading my wife and me to more doctors, shamans, and dozens of healers around the world. We live in Canada, but traveled to as far away as Japan.
What started as my journey of hope turned into a dark and painful life with bouts of deep depression. The tinnitus sabotaged my music, my marriage, and sometimes my very desire to live. The worst part was that because my injury was not visible to the world, people had no appreciation or ability to feel compassion for my suffering. I felt very alone. It suddenly occurred to me that maybe Van Gogh cut off his ear to make his suffering visible to the world – not because he thought it would stop his tinnitus.
Believing no one in the world could understand my physical pain, or my emotional burden, I turned to the Internet only to find chat groups with more stories of chronic depression and misery. It became clear I wasn’t alone in my suffering, but it didn’t make me feel better about my situation. That was when my wife became the most afraid, and ordered me to stay out of the virtual company of these sufferers, and instead to stay abreast of research through the American Tinnitus Association.
I was so busy fighting the tinnitus and struggling to make it through the day, I barely noticed my wife’s struggle with my tinnitus too. I had no energy for her personal fight to keep me alive, or to fight the Canadian Hearing Association when they told me they couldn’t measure the volume of the noise I hear (higher than their instruments could measure). I had no strength to fight the audiologist who sold me “white noise/masking hearing aids” that, despite my discipline, hope, and full cooperation, didn’t work for me. I didn’t have the energy to fight other health professionals who tried to help but whose good ideas didn’t work. They got my money; I kept the tinnitus.
My last hope, or so I thought, was an audiologist and medical doctor team who specialized in treating musician’s hearing problems. Because I’m self employed, I have no drug insurance plan. Feeling for my situation, they gave me dozen packets of antidepressants. Feeling hopeful that maybe they would work, I poured the boxes out on the kitchen table. That’s when I noticed my wife’s anger and when she gave me the ultimatum: “Paul, either you choose to live your life on antidepressants, or you choose to face your disability and conquer it. If you choose to conquer it, you will live a happy life with me and Adrian [our son]. If you choose the antidepressants, you will miss your music and your family. It’ll all be gone.” She stood there with hands on hips and said, “You choose now, because I’m ready to live with whatever you choose.”
With my glimmer of hope turning into profound rage, I swept the table with my arm, and all the pill boxes flew around the room. My rage turned into deep sorrow for my loss of silence, and I bawled for the longest time, curled up on the floor. Nancy never came to comfort me. Maybe she knew I needed to let go of my rage. She watched standing at a distance and repeated the words “You must choose now. It’s been four years, and you have to choose what you are going to do.” I sheepishly got up knowing that I would get no sympathy from her now. This was tough love. I picked up the packets, and began to flush the pills down the toilet.
I cried all night, mourning the fact that after four years, the tinnitus wasn’t going away. I had cried many times before, but this time was different. On this night, I began to surrender to the tinnitus. I knew the tinnitus would somehow have to become my new best friend.
But I wouldn’t be doing it alone. With Nancy and Adrian by my side, my tinnitus health care team at the ready, a new spiritual mentor into my life, I was introduced to books about the theory of mind, body, and spirit. I kept a journal of what I ate, how I lived, and my thought processes. Over a period of time, I learned by trial and error that I could control the volume of my tinnitus by completely eliminating wheat products, milk, caffeine, yellow vegetables, pork, salt, red wine, and citrus fruits from my diet, and introducing a high-protein diet of beef and certain types of beans, plus broccoli and other green vegetables.
What I eat seems to control the volume of the tinnitus. I learned that exercise, sex, meditation, and playing the piano kept my mind off of the tinnitus for long stretches of time. I learned that my negative thought processes had kept me focused and addicted to my tinnitus, and that I could actually control my thoughts to take the focus off of my tinnitus. I learned that no one else in the world was empowered to heal me, and that I would ultimately be responsible for my own healing.
Seven years later, I am a completely new person. Tinnitus has transformed my life – in very positive ways. Because of the tinnitus, I have walked an 850km pilgrimage across Spain, produced spiritual films, composed symphony music, became a certified motivational trainer, and am currently writing my first book. I am healthier, wiser, more grounded, humbled, and very grateful for my life.
Because of the tinnitus, I now teach people how to find their inner strength and use it to conquer their mind’s attachment to illness, vulnerabilities, emotional burdens, and fears. And yet, with all of my professional credits, nothing in my life’s journey comes close to my personal accomplishment of conquering my tinnitus. No, I may never experience silence again. But tinnitus now serves as a beacon in my life. It is no longer the cruel enemy that once controlled me.
As a master of sound, I can tell you that the most beautiful sound I’ve ever heard is the suspended space between two musical notes – that open space of “no sound,” of silence. It’s such a great gift. But I’ve learned that other profound gifts do come, and from the strangest forms of suffering. As my loving wife once said in one desperate attempt to save my life, “It’s your choice.” And so I’ve chosen.
Paul Tobey is a pianist, composer, filmmaker, speaker and trainer who lives in Toronto, Ontario, in Canada with his wife and son.
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Tinnitus Journal
Recently I wrote an article that appeared in the June issue of “Tinnitus Today” the Journal of the American Tinnitus Association. I have received several emails and letters from readers congratulating me on the article. Thank you! I’ve also received many questions about the article and my association with Tinnitus. I will post the article next, than begin by answering some questions from readers.
I will respond to many of those questions as well as post some information about my experience with Tinnitus that many sufferers can relate to. I hope the information is valuable to you. I welcome your comments.
